Well, H took the kids yesterday after I left for church around 10 I think and returned & left them at 7. I get back from my bible study around 8:15 but he apparently couldn't wait; guess he had plans with OW he couldn't break.
D9 had to go see her psych. today--sees her every few months for checkin. H showed up and I didn't say hi, woops, although I was reading D9 a book. Then during the session, she asks how D9 is and H again says oh, she's fine with me; I don't have any problems (which btw my S15 said isn't true, she does have meltdowns with him anyway which prob. are less b/c he just spends a half day or day with them each week plus he's taking them to the movies or mall and buying them stuff so what's to meltdown about anyway. I did ask her about S15 if she needed to see him for depression. His C thinks he is moderately depressed as do I. She said wait on it and she's going to touch base with his C. She said something like D isn't bad on the kids if the parents have a good R and asked about ours. I said nothing, and H said well, we don't see each other much, but I don't say anything negative about her to the kids. (Yeah, like what could he say negative: I spend my life taking care of them, cleaning, doing errands for them, etc. What's to say?
I find myself just feeling dislike with a tinge of anger for him. I usually think I'm kind of in the same place as a lot of us here, but I don't think I feel the same toward him as y'all, I mean as you guys feel about your WAS. Hopefully the dislike will lessen eventually, rather than increase like it has for me lately??? When we left, H says "Bye D9, have a good one" as D9 didn't say bye to him. I usually remind her to say bye and hug but didn't feel like it today. Bad day I guess. I did say Bye to him. Trying to be polite but it's not easy sometimes. Karen
