YOu both are struggling as to whether to make it work because it seems as if both of you have one foot out the door (just in case). You either decide to make it work no matter what, or you don't.
WDID,
I can definitely see a lot of that dynamic in my own relationship with the fetching Mrs. Puppy. I think there's a lot of truth to that.
But do you really see H4H's wife trying? Because see, I don't, and I don't think H4U does either, and I think the "trying" is really, really, REALLY important to us LBSs, especially us HD ones. I think if we could really KNOW that our FWAWs/AWAWs were trying, and perhaps were just poor at showing it, or maybe they're showing it in their own LL instead of ours, it would really help us.
