GFI.. have you noticed any change at all, in her?? Is she more, or less friendly toward you? I know alot of us hate the phrase baby steps (and how do we know they are not just being civil, friendly and nothing more than that??).. but, is there any change? Is she sounding more relaxed when she talks to you? Is she making herself more or less available to meet up? I just wondered if we can see any progress here.

Interesting you say you dont think you will reconcile. I wonder if you back off, what the effect would be on her.

Al