Keep in mind, I said looking at porn is normal, but the amount might not be. From what you describe it does sound like addiction. Unfortunately I don't know a lot about porn addiction. My husband doesn't look at porn regularly. He's probably on the very low end of this. I would say he might look once every 5 years... If a naked woman was standing there he'd definitely look, but he doesn't go out of his way to look for it.
>>I may be able to get perfectly comfortable with the idea of him looking at pictures of naked women. But you know, I don't think I'll ever be able to be comfortable with him telling me he's willing to give me up over it.<<
I completely agree with you.
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