regarding sexing texts/emails, i did start sending those. not just because i thought it would help, but because our sexual encounters over the past year deserved it. maybe in the past i would be too shy to say things, but now more than ever, i felt the emails were necessary. and they certainly havent hurt me by sending them, i think only helped.

sometimes i feel like i should cut off contact with me, that he doesnt deserve the messages, or the affection, but on the flip side, since it was a problem in the past, and u say it was for you too, it may be just what they are looking for.

it doesnt solve your problems, but it could help get u to the point of being in a position to work on your problems.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09