I've been reading "Passionate Marriage". Not the easiest read in the world, by a long shot. Some of it seems so far from my reality. Last night I read the chapter on the "Two-choice Dilemma". I think it was written about my wife. I have to read it again, but I think that it is saying what I've finally come to see. That I can't continue avoiding making a choice. And that standing up for myself is the only way that she is going to have to make a choice, as well. I need to read it again, probably twice, to make sure I understand it!
