I'm going to give her the letter tonight. I too think I know what her response will be; afterall she's been saying the same thing for months, that she doesn't want to stay married, that she wants to want to, but at this point she doesn't how or when that will happen. The other day I asked her if she wanted to work on forgiving each other and rebuilding trust (not the actuall act of doing that, just the desire to do so) and she said she didn't think we were at that point. Not sure what that means, and she wouldn't elaborate, but I just think it means she doesn't really want to move forward. To me, she is just buying time--not sure for what, but that's all I see. Anyhow, good luck to you.
