Thanks guys. I am fine with him moving out where I am concerned, it is just the kids I am always worried about.
I am just very glad he is going to see someone about 'fixing' him. I realize no one can fix Dan but Dan, but I am glad he can talk to someone about all the crap spinning around in his brain...
And last night he apologized for blaming me for his unhappiness. I said something about how he said last fall that he had been miserable for 15 years, as long as he had known me, how his life started sucking when he married me instead of going to grad school. He said "That was not fair, that was not a nice thing to say. I shouldn't have said it because that isn't true. I'm sorry I said that".
So again I am glad he will be getting therapy just so he can see the reality of his situation and his choices.
