Lou123,

I'd recommend you stop saying ILY (more 180) and focus on doing stuff for YOU. The uncertainty can eat at you, but one certainty is that you are going to be with you, whether he's with you or not. Right?? Go to the theater, mall, park, gym, library.. and get to know yourself again.

Make YOU the kind of person you wanna be with!


H 51/W 43
Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs
2 kids- D18 & S16
"I want out" July 2008
"I want out" Dec 2008
"I want you out" Aug 2009
Still in house thru it all