I am in the exact same place. I am betting other Pisceans are too, my BMF included. I am also lonely, I miss having someone hold my hand as I walk down the street, miss waking up along side them, miss his smell, his physical prescence.. but I too have no heart or desire to go date. I too have no strength to make myself try, although I am lonely and I can see that he is trying to make it work with someone else, rightly or wrongly.
In your case though.. your ex continues to move closer to you, which makes me wonder if she is not harbouring doubts about her decision to leave you, even if those feelings are not yet conciously owned by her...She is circling, maybe she has got whatever it was she needed to do in leaving you, out of her system and is missing what she once wanted to run from.. yet you cant 'see' her. It doesnt matter what she does, its not going to work, as your mind/heart is fixated somewhere else.
An I am sure you will say "no.. I see no love in her eyes, its all about the kids".. but I wouldnt be so sure. You didnt expect her to leave, so why would you expect her to want back? Have you considered having an honest conversation with her? Tell her you tried to win her back but finally accepted she was gone. Then you met someone else. And how you werent expecting to see MORE of her and how you are confused about her increasing apparent desire to be closer to the kids (and you?). Why not be honest hey.. what do you have to lose at this stage? Especially if you are beginning to feel resentful about it...
