Do not be consumed with your child and her father. Let them hash it out, not you. Stay away from it and do not try and control it.
Let it work itself out.
And how do you know he is doing drive-bys--do you watch and wait? Just curious.
I would suggest you remove yourself from the windows and immerse yourself into your projects and get going with them. It will help you so much.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
