Hi guys, I think you for your input. I will need to go and read your threads as I am still learning everyone's situations here.
WP - I have considered a letter and I've also considered having the conversation over the phone. I have decided to do this in person rather than a letter because I want to have a two-way conversation with him. I am going to put the ball in my H's court and ask him up front what are his feelings and what does he want to do and does he feel he can commit to our marriage or not. I want to give him the opportunity to tell me where I stand with him, and then I will go from there. I am going to do lots of affirmation/validation whatever.
Yes, I am no longer willing to live in what feels like an open relationship either, I can't believe the damage it is causing on both sides. Unfortunately, deep in my heart, I know what his response is going to be.
