{{{{tx mom}}}}
Your so right about D in Tx. It stinks. Part of my problem is that H NEVER took care of the finances and really has no clue to has what impact this will have on both of us.

The OW is really pushing H about this D. He is walking around with $$ in his eyes thinking about him getting a cash settlement from our 401K etc. He will just blow it all. It burns me how hard we worked for what we had and giving it to OW.

TxMom, does your H realize how bad everything will be for him Financially or does he just "not get it". Pretty sad.

take care.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09