Afternoon! So.... did he read the letter yet? You wrote it (sent it?) on the Full Moon, which I found interesting. Mercury is now going backwards from the same day for 3 weeks, so will mess up communications and things wont become 'clear' until it moves forwards again beginning of Feb. All this seems to be taking so long, doesnt it? As soon as I feel I have accepted something, or reached a realisation, or I've turned a corner...up pops another corner, or another change of thought! Theres no 'end' in sight yet, mentally/emotionally.
I still think communication is the key (maybe with the help of the MC?). I wish I had better access to my ex, or he would have talked to me, or me to him. In your case.. he invited you out, but you said you didnt feel like going, but did you tell him WHY you didnt feel like going? I know, I know.. he didnt ask, why should you do all the work. I dont have any answers! But I can appreciate its a frustrating time.
I wonder what he made of your letter.. though he is so busy with work, I dont suppose he will respond soon!
I really am beginning to think it doesnt matter what any of us do/dont do (within reason!), what will be will be. We can all struggle like moths on a pin, but then, if something is meant to work out, it will.