I need some advice. For Christmas one of my relatives that don't know my wife and I are separated sent us a gift card to go out to eat. They sent us one last year but I opened it at her(my old house) so she knew about it, she doesn't know about this one. Last year we used it for her bday me her and the kids went out. I was wondering if I should ask her if she wants to do the same thing this year. Part of me says just keep it for myself since I don't want her to say no or I have other plans or whatever.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
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