well, have been away from this place for a while - needed some time out...
Interesting that my last thread title (Best friends?) has also been the subject of some discussion ... still not really sure where I stand on that - most people seem to advocate being friendly rather than best friends.
Relations with my W continue to be friendly - and although I hope for a reconciliation I recognise that this is unlikely and even if possible certainly not according to my time frame! I am adjusting and getting my GAL activities scheduled in. As a result things have come to a bit of a standstill with the house - too much other stuff on!
As thread title suggests, i'm searching for a state of being which is neither going backwards, nor pushy and clingy - its a difficult gear to find! but going to continue waggling the gear stick of life to see if I can locate it!
KBO - GFI
Me: 40ish W: 40ish Together: 20 ish years Married: 10ish Years
