In a way I shouldn't be posting, as I really don't have any major updates to talk about. However, there were some baby steps last night, or so I think.
H is supposed to travel for work today, just for 1 night. His company's travel agent is absolutely the worst. I seriously can do more from my laptop in 5 minutes than she seems to be able to do with days advance notice. He told them on Thursday that he needed to travel Monday (today) to be there in time for a specific meeting. So Sunday night at 10 PM and no response. H needs to call his manager, who gives him the travel agent's personal number. I'm really annoyed as there is the possibility now that H's travel will overlap with mine, meaning we will not see each other for more than a week. However, I bit my tongue, and said that he didn't need to worry about the pets etc., and that I could handle the arrangements for them if the travel overlapped. I didn't say anything this time about how much the agent sucks, which she does, but instead helped him look for flights that we had to send to his agent. Please, a travel agent who does not answer emails for her corporate clients, and needs to be given flight information by someone else. It is pretty infuriating to me, but for some reason it bothers H when I point this out, so I just joked that his company should hire me as a travel consultant. The ridiculous woman is going to book his flights this morning (he is leaving today) and let him know. She couldn't even do it last night! So, I was incredibly annoyed as it also leaves me with a lot more to prepare for in terms of our upcoming trip together if the travel overlaps, but I did keep my cool. When we went to bed, H was very nice. He kissed my face several times, and was indescribably sweet. Things just felt very, I'd say, loving between us-just a feeling, but a very positive one.
Other than that, H continues to be more "normal" in terms of interactions with me. I cook, but he will take my plate away and carry it to the kitchen, and will always thank me for cooking. It really is the little things that matter the most to me now, and each thank you, each kiss on the face is invaluable...
Well I don't suspect that I'll have too much more to post in the next couple of days. I have a big presentation to senior management tomorrow, that could help me a lot at work if it goes well. Oddly this is also when H has his review and is potentially up for promotion. So crossing my fingers for the both of us...stability at work can only help our M!
OK hope everyone had a great weekend!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!