Is the answer blowing in the wind?

[Loving_Life]

"Why wasn't *I* good enough to be loved?? Why wasn't *I* good enough to fight for??"

Oh, my heart goes out to you on this one.. I have been there so many times, especially during my first S, I felt like I had to become the person *H* wanted to be loved again. The rejection of it all can be consuming, but the rejection is actually a false reality b/c it's created when you let the other person become more impt than you are- giving the other person some kind of power and giving yourself no power. Finally, now during my second S and pending D, I am seeing through to the other side of this. It needs rephrasing like this: "I am an amazing person who many men would love and he is not capable of loving me or treating me the way I deserve (right now) or (possibly ever)"

You are good enough to be loved, and if he doesn't fight for you someone else will!