Wow, Nik, that sure was interesting to read about your sitch. I mean, I knew about some of what you wrote..I can tell you one thing for sure- I think you are the cats meow \:\) (Her, on the other hand, blech!) (OH! I keep going over to Piecing to see if you have any ideas on a bigger goal for you and your H..how's that coming? Are you still feeling sort of stagnant?)

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Not that D is great, but that if you have a @#% partner who refuses to commit to your R or work on your R and only cares about himself, and one that insists on a D, that something else more precious is out there available to you.


I like that. \:\)

You both have given me a lot to think about. I need to re-read the posts and really consider them... I am having the feeling that probably a lot LBS have which is "Why wasn't *I* good enough to be loved?? Why wasn't *I* good enough to fight for??"

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing