H came over and yes, were we (the girls and I) shocked!
At first, he came across as being very irritable. We just scrambled around and did out own thing. S18 was here for awhile so he and his dad were hanging out on the patio.
I eventually went out there to give H $$$ he had asked me to get from his unemployment account (I am the only one with access to it as he gave me the card, etc.) so I went out and gave him the money.
He seemed to have settled down since when he first arrived.
The entire time, I was either on the computer or watching the Steelers game.
He did come in a short while later and started watching the game.
Then me and the girls went out. I had to take D16 and her friend to a church meeting, while D15 and I went to the store as she needed to buy some items.
We came home and he was still here.
He left about 8PM and when he did, I don't think he knew what to do. He told me he was coming over on Tuesday and I just said ok and goodbye. I did not kiss him. I think it threw him, how should I say, "off track" as we usually kiss goodbye. He was nervous around me somewhat.
I am okay, really I am.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19