Hi HM.. sorry i missed your thread when I was cruising around here late last night.
I likehow your thinking process works... your thoughts & actions are tinged with respect, yet care and compassion for yourself & D. You are trying to see the effect on your H and while not necessarily let that affect your actions, it is within your line of sight & you are not being oblivious to how your actions are/could affect him.
I LOVE hand made jewelry.. a dear friends daughter has made some for me in the past. I would be very interested in some if you decided to make a go of it???
hugs to you Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.