That's a tough one. I'm going to keep pushing for going to MC, but I don't know that counts. There are not really a lot of things that I can think of that I can use to apply any pressure. I don't "have" anything that she "Wants". I am thinking of trying to figure out some of how things could be done if we do S, or D, and mentioning them. To show her that it is being thought about. I don't think she believes I would do it.