PM Thread #3

[Silver Fox]

Hi PM,

I've never posted to you but have been reading a little of your thread.

H definitely wants to be seen as a good guy but not really follow through. He recently told my MIL that he said I, PM, did nothing wrong. I am glad he has come around to that way of thinking. But it still doesn't mean he will work on our M or that he will leave OW. I need to have a ton of patience

I'm in the same boat. And my H from the beginning has said it's nothing I've done. I don't know if that makes it easier or harder.

that's just the way she thinks because H tells her that there is no way he is coming back so she is trying to think how things will go about in the future.

Same thing is happening to me. I've always gotten along with my MIL but she's always let H do what he wants. He thinks she's on his side because she's quiet and just listens to his justifications as to why he wants to leave our M. I wish she would just once say "What you're doing is outrageous and wrong! You need to crawl back to that woman who's been part of our family for over 20 years and beg for forgiveness!"

We don't have children so if our M does indeed end, I'll probably never see my MIL, SIL, or niece and nephew again.

So sad.