in the book it tells u to not say i love you, because it reminds them that they dont feel the same at the moment.
i know that is hard to do if u are used to doing it...
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09