A little different but still the same.

[mdoodles]

i have to tell you, the ow in my situation called me too telling me the same things...from what i hear, they usually do that only when they feel the relationship slipping from them.

the only thing i can say is that, if this just happened, if u want to hang on, if u feel there is still hope, u just have to be patient. affairs usually die out, but it could take time. the fact that u know about her keeps it from thriving in secrecy.

its painful, i know, i have been battling this for a very long time. the difference in my situation is that the ow thinks im the other woman. my h lied to her from day one, i believe she thought he was already divorced, and slowly some forms of the truth slipped out, so i think now she thinks we are getting a divorce, which we are not.

do your best not to beg or plead, and do not talk to the ow. no good can from it at this point.