A little different but still the same.

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So OW calls me yesterday night and tells me that W is her gf and that I needed to stop calling her at work bothering her. OW says W does not want anything to do with me and does not want to be friends with me or hear me telling her I love her. To which I responded that Number One she was right she was the gf I am the WIFE Number Two we have two children so I will ALWAYS be in her life OW needed to get used to it. Number Three: I wasn't doing the calling W was which shut OW up quickly and Last but not least I would love my W till my dying breathe and therefore would say so anytime I pleased. GOODBYE. and hung up. I didn't yell or anything I was VERY proud of myself and then W called back and stated in a very monotone voice that she didn't want me calling her and we weren't friends and then she turned to OW and said what else do you want me to say and I picked up the phone and said I love you honey call me when your gf isn't bothering you. Then I hung up. I think W is very much MLC since she was born both and the female was picked for her after birth not by her I might add. W has testerone overload going on to begin with. She states she loves me but needs time to figure out why she fell out of love with me and why she fell in love with OW who makes her feel alive. I might be all women but still the same feelings are involved and I still need just as much advice and help as any one else. I have no idea what to do from here. I'm trying to give her space. I don't call her unless I have to about the kids or something like that. I don't beg or plead or cry anymore although I already have done that in the past. Now I'm planning to move to Colorado with our kids to my brothers to see if that will work.
HELP!!!