Sooo....she sent me an email talking about how well adjusted and happy the boys are now, and everything there is fine...yada yada yada. How niave can a person be? I come from a broken home myself...two decades later I am still affected by it. My kids are okay two months after leaving? I emailed her back, saying that I disagree, and that with her inability to commit to a regular time for me to call the boys everyday (she schedules me around everything she has, instead of the other way around) makes me feel like I am being phased out, and it is also prohibiting any kind of stability for the kids in regards to me. She txted me saying that she will commit to a specific time everyday (we'll see how long that lasts), and everything else needs to be addressed in a mediation. Then she called. She was so angry with me...I was talking calmly, but she was so angry. She wouldn't hear me on anything with the boys. I ended up telling her that I could take legal action to bring my kids back into the state, but I didn't want to do that...I told her that I felt we could talk amongst each other and resolve it, if she would just give the chance. She got real mad, and asked if I had been working with a lawyer...I said yeah, because I had questions I needed answered, and that since she was hell bent on this legal seperation, I needed to have that to make sure that I protect myself...so she's like, so you've retained a lawyer? I said yeah. She felt too angry to stay on the phone with me, and said we will talk tomorrow.
