Thanks Mishka, I would label him 'Mr Avoidant' lol! an ongoing battle! I am hoping that by no longer enabling and being brave enough to bring it up it may help change the situation. In fairness, I think I may have been avoidant too this past year in lots of ways. I am stronger now.
I also do feel a bit stronger over the house thing - it always helps to let it go! To be fair to h, all the bills come out by direct debit but if I am going to now be responsible for them now I want to be fully responsible i.e. being able to check the statements.
The yoga was fun, although it is expensive. Much nicer than at my gym, I always feel intimidated there so stopped going. Here it was really friendly and they helped me much more - I didn't have to stand on my head! It was so hot though, I thought I was going to pass out a few times! It was nice as my mind was somewhere else for 90 mins and I wasn't stuck at home.
I wonder what the week will bring...
BTW Lisa and I have another choir concert on Thursday! Exciting 3 choir extravaganza!
an ongoing battle! I am hoping that by no longer enabling and being brave enough to bring it up it may help change the situation. In fairness, I think I may have been avoidant too this past year in lots of ways. I am stronger now.
