Over on Kalni's thread, someone had said if God takes something away from you, it's because He has something better in store for you. Kalni's (and Ali's) question was essentially "does that mean my H gets a better W?" It touched a nerve with me because this is all getting back to the "It's for the 'best'", "Lots of other people..." mentality. I mean, I know I don't want to look towards the future and feel depressed, but sheesh. I HATE the idea of H hooking up with someone "better" than me.
((Trixi)) I would say it definitely means something better is coming for YOU, not him!
DBer since 2003 D - 3/24/09 GAL and DBing for myself