What percentage of MLC'ers have someone else?

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I still have not found any evidence of any OW. The person my STBX does lean on is his best friend (same gender- no I don't think he is gay...). He has always only had 1 or 2 good friends. He isn't the type to have a ton of friends. He is very cautious about who he shares himself with- meaning who he can talk to. One thing to note is that is drinking has escalated in the past year to where I now think he is an alcoholic. I would say that he is most committed to his alcohol. I don't see us reconciling anytime soon, as he doesn't want anything in his life, but this. He does go skiing or will hang out for the evening with his bff and he does have the kids every other weekend. Other than that he is walled up at home...usually drunk.