I haven't been following your thread but I have been enjoying your posts on other's threads! your title good news/bad news caught my eye and I read your latest two posts. I am sorry to hear the bad news and glad to hear the good news! One thing comes to mind... have you read "passionate marriage" by david schnarck (sp)? It might give you and your H some new tools/points of view about loving and being loved... it is not uncommon when our spouse's importance surpasses our ability to self-soothe for us to start feeling no loving feelings... but all is not lost. It's hard to explain, the book is so much better! anyway, JMO, a humble thought.
