Hi Loving_Life, Thanks for stopping by. You must have had to do some real searching to find my sitch (as I don't post much).

I never thought of the band thing that way - so true your comment about being successful. My H's band fell apart shortly after the bomb & a year after he filed. So I don't think the band had anything to do with D.

Nope, my H is poor, so he has no interent at home (so he says) & would be too afraid to be on the internet much at work.

No contact from my H since we last met on 12/21 - so really not much progress. Only, the illusion of progress when we meet. I will contact him after the 21st, to see if we can meet & get this D progressing. Trying to work on this M has been my cheeseless tunnel - no more. If he wants this M , then he can pick up the sword & start fighting for it.

I watched Pirates of the Carribean last night & there was a very good quote. "Tricky thing is it's not how you live, it's how you live with yourself."


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)