Also I should mention during the talk he said he didn't believe what they said at Retro that love was a choice b/c he wanted to love me and it just wasn't that simple...
As he was leaving later, I said that maybe he was partly right that love wasn't a choice. That our actions were our choices, like when we clean up after a sick kid we do it b/c we love them not because we want to be cleaning up a mess, etc etc.
I said, "But on the other hand if LOVING was a choice, then I am not sure why I would still love you with all that has happned. Even when I have tried to stop loving you I haven't been able to do it.."
His reply, "And why do you think I keep coming back no matter how many times I leave?"
Which is odd b/c on the one hand he said he couldn't just choose to love me but then when he left he acted like he was coming back b/c he did love me...
Glad he is getting some help to sort out his brain...
