Not sure how to link up previous posts but basics, waw at 40 EA summer 06, miscarrage, jan 07, ILYBNILWY Jan 07, seperated Jan 07, A August 07 (turned PA, not sure when but just admitted Dec 08) Two children 10 and 7. together 20years Married 12.
I'm in the UK and can file this month having been seperated two years.
Really still confused after all this, It's the revelation of the OM in Dec that changed things for me I always thought we would make it. Have become best friends (unkowning OM was there) now completely backed of as can't look at her the same 20 years replaced in 6 months. Aa I am finally backing off she always make s contact always about children but wants to draw out the conversation.
About the OM when she told me I tried to play it cool, yeah we've seperated 2 years (I did see someone for six months in the summer) but shocked when I ended up as a lodger in a room living out of a bag she was seeing someone else. I now have a nice house with a room each for my children.javascript: x();
After she told me I could nt speak to her, she came round cried said I looked at her like a whore, said it was one drunken night and realised she did nt want a relationship. I'm not green if a guy is with someone for nearly 18months its not because you only slept together once. So bottom line she's lying has done for over 2 and 1/2 years but I still love her.
just to add, a week later she said it had finished as she had to much to cope with. Is this BS as she regreted telling me and does nt want to hurt my feelings? did she say this because it's true? or did she say this because she wants me to still like her? Does it matter whatever the truth is?
What next do I proceed with D in two weeks, or keep not contacting her after rebuilding friendship and let her see what she will lose of after this amount of time just accept she's not MLC but jus done.
For the record, I am happy with my life and doing lots of GAL and only want her back if she is fully committed. Any thoughts would really help.
cheers Charlie
Last edited by Strongerthanthis; 01/11/0905:36 PM.
Me 39 W 39 D8 S5 Married 13yrs Together 20years EA June 06 Ilyninlwy Jan 07 Seperated Jan 07
