No answers.. just loving thoughts, warm fuzzies and caring.
I do this 'forgiveness' thing now. When someone does something that get under my skin, I silently forgive them. They're just being them.. it's how I react to it that makes it a problem for me. So I forgive and let go.
"Forgive and forget" never made sense until I started doing this. Many times I'm fighting my greatest battles against myself.. which are sparked by an interaction with someone else.
This isn't "I suck", "Why is it always me?" type of thing. It's.. hey someone can cuss a blue streak in front of me and it doesn't bother me.. but goodness, tease me for more than 8 seconds and I'm a basket case. That's ME, my body's tuning, that brings out the tweaking. Forgive the other person.. it's not their fault I'm sensitive to some things. In the process, my own personal muck seeps out and I get better and better.
