Racing toward my Path with Heart

[SuperDad]

Hi Chris, Steve and Sunny!
Happy belated holidays, too.

You really have the GAL stufff down!

Well, I think it was easy since I had been wanting to do so much more for the past years and was always talked out of it by W. Now, I am free and can just do what I want, for myself and with the kids. It's nice...just missing a good woman in my life, otherwise, things are pretty darned great.

So...on that note, goals for 2009:

1. Finalize the big D. Short term - get mediation set up by end of Jan.
2. Make a new career plan. ST - get a mentor by end of Jan. (esp. based on not being able to leave Orlando.)
3. Hit my goal time for Spring triathlon. ST - stick to training plan for Jan.
4. Work with the kids to improve their relationship with each other...basically apply DB techniques, esp. validation, to them. ST - coach them through 3 positive conflict resolutions this month.
5. Take 2 long vacations this year with kids. ST - negotiate timing of first one with STBXW this month.

Longer term - get my own place and start dating!

Hope all is well with the rest of you and all the best for 2009.

SD