Happy New Year Sunny...if a bit belated. Looks like things are mostly good for you. Glad to see that you have learned the important lessons from this whole experience and are not wavering in your path. It seems that H has not really emerged from whatever fog he is in and is still in me, me, me mode...if with some occational shocks that bring him a bit closer to reality.
I completely agree that unless he directly comes back and really takes responsiblity for his actions and the damage that has been done, there is no basis for a future R. Until then...keep on living your life for you!
SD
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