Oh, and one other thing that I hope helps some of you.
(She speaks German and French only so I hope she never reads this)
My girlfriend is not the most beautiful, successful, wealthy, sexy person of all those that I met. She is a simple girl who works with her hands and scrimps every penny she can.
But of all the dating, she was the one I wanted. And I wanted her badly enough to want to get to know her first.
Actually in retrospect, there were several times we bumped into each other before that, we were in the same place at the same time, and we even talked and flirted once or twice. I think I wasn't ready but God was telling us knock knock, here is the one I prepared for you.
I still struggle with the pain and a friend of mine is going through it now too. I told my girlfriend that if she ever decides to break up - she'll see only a dust cloud while I get back out there and ask the world, "Will the real Mrs. Right please stand up?"