So, what happens next? If one of the parties doesn't want an awesome relationship, even after a number of years? But they don't want to end it either. They are content to go on indefinitely as "room mates"? Where do you go from there?
Hi VH,
Here are my thoughts... Since your waw is still there sounds to me like there is still hope. Also, going to MC could really help, that is a positive sign. If she really wanted out, she would have left by now- so she's all talk and no action. You do deserve way better than what you've gotten, like so many of us here. If you feel motivated in sticking with the DB longer, maybe try some new tactics to reignite the friendship. Does anything in DB stand out as an idea to try? I bet your MC will have good suggestions. I hope that works out for you soon!
DBer since 2003 D - 3/24/09 GAL and DBing for myself
