F
I think it is hard to lose the bitterness
It is a process dealing with the OP and getting to acceptance
I am there also ..wanting to let H and OW go, but it still bothers me and I feel as you do

like the OP had no right to move in on a M peron
it is wrong
so time will heal us -more time
we need to be patient with ourselves too
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow