F I think it is hard to lose the bitterness It is a process dealing with the OP and getting to acceptance I am there also ..wanting to let H and OW go, but it still bothers me and I feel as you do
like the OP had no right to move in on a M peron it is wrong so time will heal us -more time we need to be patient with ourselves too peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow