I know you are hurt but the first thing you have to do is pray about the anger. Each time you say "homewrecker whore" I can see how angry you are and I certainly understand but that is something I have never even called ow. Yes, I have called her something but not quite that drastic. I think I prefer adulteress.
I know this is still fairly early for you to be experiencing your h moving out but try and work on the anger, forgiveness and yes, even pray for ow.
Maybe post on your own thread so people can read more about you and your situation there. It helps all of us to keep better track of who you are when you have your own thread.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19