I have to think of it from a different angle, is what I was trying to say. Thinking of it from the "everything I do is to save my marriage" was wearing me down.

I'm thinking of it differently. If it happens, then it was meant to be. Focusing on "saving my marriage", no, focusing on me, yes.

Thats what I meant.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."