Originally Posted By: lodo
Maybe a word of warning - just because he is getting better doesn't mean he'll consistently give you the same thing.


I know... I'll take the emotional orgasm occasionally. Is it a fair trade to ask for one of those from him for me as often as he used to ask for & get a physical one from me?

As long as the respect is consistant and I know that he CAN do it (be that empathetic) & I can ask for what I need, when I need it.... that gives me hope for long-term change that matters to me.

Originally Posted By: lodo
Otherwise, take what you can get \:\)


uh-huh ;\)

Divorced 03/2010
Mom to two amazing kids

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