everyone was betting after he said you all needed a talk that the tummy would kick in...quite predictable isnt he.
i think its time you take car back from son.its your car...let H drive him to work after all he isnt working..let h deal with son.....give him some responsibilty or he can give you a car to use.....
your h has life too cushy....its all according to him when he comes and goes, where he lives i think you need to take your familys life back. Youre right god doesnt condone the life style he has chosen to continue....he hides behind gods forgiveness and yours.....
Uhmm....if i take the car away from my son, he has no job. he is training to become part of management and i want him to succeed. he has not been using the car like he used to. since it is just us, i have to let him use the car. H would never in a million years get up early, drive 15 miles to take S to work or pick him up at midnight. that would never fly with h as he has told us before, if you need to get somewhere take a taxi--well, a taxi pulled next to me the other day and the rates were $2.50 just to get in to the cab and $2 per mile. that would be a nice expense, wouldn't it? it is crazy to even suggest such a thing!
S even took the day off yesterday just so I could run errands and do some grocery shopping. it took me over 4 hours to do what i had to do. he gave up a day and his pay just for me.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
