Hey LovingLife- Glad to see that you put some photos up. It might take awhile for the impact to be known. I don't know about your stbx, but I am a terrible facebooker and rarely visit, so it might take a little bit for him to even spot the pics.
UGH! on the blaming the separation on you thing. Boo! Believe me, I often wonder why ANY of us are here trying to "keep" a marriage to a partner that clearly doesn't have "it" in them to hold up their end of a bargain.
Out of curiousity--what if he DID want to reconcile? Would you move back? Would he move to where you live?
Since your contact with him is so sparse, I don't know if I have any particular advice other than what you have done by posting the pics.
You actually sound pretty good, to me
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
