Hi guys, John, I know in the end only what I think matters. Sandy, I know you understand. Lan, I think we are in different phases. I admire you for how you deal with things, but you did get a second honeymoon, didnt you? (those borders etc etc). Ian, we did go 4 times at MC. We stopped for holidays (the Councelor said she would go away) and I have no desire to go back. I was doing mostly the talking, a safe place to vent but I dont feel she was "smart enough" to lead us out of this. If I dont find someone else, I may ask him to go back. Btw, he said he went there for me, once again, to show me how much he is doing for our M to work.
Well, stagnation is not good I agree. I feel he has given up too. He has this "you havent changed" attitude lately. He doesnt even kiss me goodbye anymore, it's strictly parenting. I am afraid to talk to him again. Everytime we talk, the old me resurfaces, it's like I am asking and asking and begging and requesting things he refuses to give me. It's like it's his life purpose to refuse to show some understanding, do something to help us move forward. I think you are right. I think we both lost hope already... K
