TOH don't go down the negative path. You couldn't possibly know what your h is thinking as in not caring about you.
Just because he is not around, it doesn't mean he doesn't care. My h has said this many times in C. He told me not to make assumptions. I am telling you the same.
Sometimes they just need to be alone to sort through their life. It is their life and they need to do it their way, without you interfering or reminding them that they are NOT doing it right.
I think your h cares, it is just burried deep inside right now. Try to be at peace with your situation for now. You are doing a 180 and that takes time to see results. You won't see those results overnight.
As MWG said have faith and patience, they go hand in hand.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"