Yes MWG that is what my h says something like we will talk when "I am ready", this is not on "Your" time. That conversation may come way later for you.

Snodderly is right, just listen and validate when it does happen. If you could try not to point out all the wrongs he is doing in the future would be nice.

He knows he is doing wrong and doesn't want you to confirm that with him. Be supportive and understanding.

He has made many mistakes.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"