;\) "the opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is indifference."

Yes THis is also where I need to get.I am kind of there but I have slipups.
I think you are both right. The only thing Sara is I would not be doing it to MAKE her love me. This will not work. I AM hoping she may see it is best for our son if we keep tring. I am not saying just stay togeather for him. but actualy work on our marriage for him / Us

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know