MG, I hope your H does show and you are able to have this talk face to face. What H says is important but even more important is how you react to him. Please stay calm, acknowledge, validate his feelings and opinions. You do not have to say anymore than that until you have a chance to process whatever he may have to say to you. Let him know you will respond in a day or two.
I wish I had the opportunity you are getting. My H remains more stubborn than a long eared mule when it comes to any R talk. It is a one sided conversation, but I know he hears me and most often his actions change a little towards the positive after I talk (or rant like last week!).
Stay calm, stay focused.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
